Thursday, March 25, 2010

Ageing Love..




Like most other girls, i do think about finding love, the right man, my soul mate.
Not a tall, dark, handsome hunk but yeah, an innocent, pure, trustworthy guy.
But the question is "how many of us really find true love"? We flirt, we hurt, we cheat and we repeat. Is this all what love is about...?
Today, after a break up no one bothers to ask, "hey, r u alright"? Rather they ask" hey dude, who's next"?
Who do we blame, the modernization? fashion?
Well, not actually, we are the one's responsible for changing the definition of true love from faith, trust, responsibility and belongingness to show off, time pass, link-ups and break-ups.

In earlier times the reason for splitting up would be either parents disagreement or difference in opinion. Now-a-days, we just don't run out of giving reasons," She's just not of my type", "He's too possessive","For heaven's sake, i wanted space" and the list goes on never to end.
Personally, i think it's high time we wake up. Love is not about showing off how cool your boyfriend is or how sexy your girlfriend looks but it's about how well you understand your mate. Love is like a french wine, the older it gets the better it tastes. If u love a person, love him/ her unconditionally and without any expectations. Trust me, love always gives more than you deserve to get !

6 comments:

  1. It's not WHAT we see..It's HOW we see and WHAT we do that matters..And if it's such that you think, you are on the right track my girl:):)
    Give away all that you have..Coz more will come back to you..Always..Looking forward to read more..Love,Priyanka

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  2. Well Aashi I kind of dont agree with you... every person who falls in love for the first time...has a true feeling... but once he or she gets betrayed, thats when the attitude changes... People have readily accepted the fact that there are more choices and guys to experiment in love - who says girls dont... aint girls too possessive at times?

    The fact of the matter is for a better long lasting relationship... u got to spend some really quality time wid your partner work out differences and keep ur head cool!

    Hey write more you are good in expressing your stuff!

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  3. thanks sarthak, its altogether a different experience to understand things from ur point of view..

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  4. i agree asashi.. the meaning of true love is being chnaged by ours ... we shud try nd understand wht is love...??

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